I’m sure you have heard a lot of suggestions on how to create a morning routine. I know that I have read about them for years, but never bothered to actually DO IT.
When the kids were little I was just trying to sleep enough and get a shower in. That was enough for me.
Now that the kids have gotten a little older I feel motivated to get organized. I am actually implementing a morning routine and it has made me so much more productive and the best part of it is that it has made me so much happier and energized.
My goal with this morning routine was to make time to take care of myself, to have more joy with the family and to not have to nag and feel overwhelmed before the day really even started.
Here’s what worked for me and hopefully you can gather a few ideas too.
#1 Get up at least an hour before the kids
This is non-negotiable. You cannot accomplish an effective, happy morning if you just roll out of bed at the same time as everyone else and jump straight into everyone needing you and chores, rushing, chaos before you’ve even brushed your teeth or had a coffee.
I give myself an hour and a half because it gives me 30 minutes to get ready, 30 minutes to connect with my inner being and 30 minutes to move my body. For you, maybe 20-20-20 would work better.
I like to meditate for about 20 minutes every morning. When you first wake up, you are in the best mental space to connect to our inner being, the Universe, Source, God. You have no negative momentum or resistance built up from the day before. You are starting fresh. I like to sync up with the power of connecting to something bigger before I take on my day. It reminds me that I’m co-creating my life and that I’m not in this alone.
#3 Connect with yourself and talk to a higher power
After my meditation, I like to take no more than 10 minutes for some reflection and I put on an essential oil that I love to support what I want to accomplish that day. I then like to pull a card of positive affirmations to give me focus. I really enjoy Gabby Bernstein’s The Universe Has Your Back card deck for this. I take a few minutes to think and journal a few things that I’d like support with and I talk to a higher power. If you like to pray or read scripture, this is when I would that. I just ask God/Universe to direct me and support me and I clearly state my goals and dreams and express gratitude for the opportunity for a new day and new experiences. This really changes the energy of your day and sets you up to feel excitement about all that is possible.
#4 Move your body
Moving your body is a great way to get the energy flowing and add some momentum to your day. When I move my body in the morning, I feel so free because I don’t feel any guilt about not taking care of myself. I’m more likely to make healthy food choices and drink my water because I’m in a health-consious state.
I’m not a hard-core workout girl. I prefer to go for a brisk walk, do some morning yoga or a quick 15-minute workout geared toward the female body. I love Danette May workouts and Yoga with Adrienne on YouTube.
#5 Freshen up, get dressed and put on a little make-up
I like to shower before bed and since I don’t do a really sweaty workout, I just like to freshen up with a quick shower or wash my face before getting ready. My hair is always dry in the morning, so it makes it faster to get ready.
I have a quick and easy all-natural face cleansing and make-up routine. I love having a simplified make-up drawer now and just having an easy go-to fresh face for my day look. I find that even just a little mascara and bronzer makes me feel more confident and ready for whatever pops up in the day.
I throw a few curls in my hair or a braid and put on the clothes I picked out the night before.
This has eliminated a lot of the decision fatigue I used to start my day with.
#6 Listen to a podcast or audiobook while doing step 5
Personal development is a big deal for me. It’s something I love and feel that I’m such a better version of myself now that I include it in my every day routine. I love learning more and more each day.
I listen while I sip my coffee and get “polished”.
#7 Five minute morning energy routine
Each morning, or whenever I need a “reset”, I love to do five-minute energy routine. It doesn’t even quite take that long, but it’s very effective in getting the energy moving throughout my body. It activates the chakras and helps me feel grounded, clear and energized.
My tapping on my body and doing a series of breathwork exercises I give myself an energetic tune-up before going out to take on the day.
#8 Fill the diffusers
Just before I go wake up the kids, I fill up the diffusers with a morning joy and energy blend to fill the air and wake up our senses. Some days it’s lemon, peppermint and lavender and other days it’s orange, valor and grapefruit. I just use whatever I’m in the mood for that day, but it’s usually a citrus oil combined with something energizing or emotionally supporting.
That’s it! It seems like a lot maybe, but it really isn’t. It’s the only way, as a busy mom, that I can comfortably make the time to connect with myself. If I don’t do it, there is so much less of me available for my family and work.
Some mornings I leave some of it out because, well, I’m not in the mood. I give myself grace and I move on. I will say though that the days I skip it are mediocre days where I kind of just skim through which is ok for a short bit, but not how I want to live my life.
Setting my morning up this way connects me to my creativity and helps me be a brighter light in everyone’s day. It helps me feel like I know myself and I’m more cheerful and attentive.
Give it a try! Maybe pick just one or two of these and try it for a week. You are going to love starting your day intentionally.
Have the BEST day!
I'd love to hear from you! Comment below to tell me about your morning...what's a non-negotiable in your morning routine? Share with a friend who feels overwhelmed each morning - maybe this could bring them some joy!